What tempts a person to cheat?

There's so many times people can cheat on. I mean, for examinations and games, it's because usually we are desperate. We needed the marks, grades or money (if we gamble while playing games though). To pass, or to excel. To win, or to get money. I guess that's what we think of when we cheat. It's about the glory, about how others perceive us. Cheating is common nowadays, maybe that's why people think it's right to even cheat in relationships. This people are the ones I look down on. If you're doing it right now, stop it and confess. It's better for you to tell him/her rather than they finding out by themselves. It hurts so much more.

If you're unhappy in a relationship, please break up with him/her. Do not hurt them like this. If you find yourself getting attracted to someone else, just back off for a while. You need to let your current relationship have an end first. Don't betray your partner like this. How would you feel if someone that you love so much, do this on you. Just don't do this. And if you never loved your partner, DO NOT BE WITH THEM. Do not give them false hope. It's not funny, humorous, amusing or whatsoever. Treat it seriously.

And to people that cheats, shame on you. Especially those that have cheated twice, really. "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me". The fact that your partner had already forgiven you, moved on and lived on, but you still find ways to go around them to have another partner. That's despicable, disgusting, shameful, awful, every single bad word in the dictionary. If you love your current partner at all, you should have stopped. Should have given up doing this. Should have NOT DONE IT AT ALL. You don't hurt someone that loves you, because you're lustful.

And to the people that have been cheated on... It's not your fault. Things happened to test your strength. I'm not saying that it's stupid to forgive them, as long as you think it's worth it. I mean, I can't determine if it should be done this way or another. Decisions always have to be made by yourselves. It's what we do, and what we should do. Don't ever give up. Maybe they are just not the right ones. You committed 101% in the relationship, and they went around it to betray you, to stab you in the back. I'm sorry if it ever happened to you. It hurts too much. But we can be stronger.

Have faith in yourself.